Oldham Family History
OLDHAM, Mercy Jane
1833 - 1910 (76 years)-
Name OLDHAM, Mercy Jane Alt. Birth 28 Oct 1832 Indiana, USA [1] Born 10 Aug 1833 Shelbyville, Shelby County, Indiana, USA [2] Gender Female Census 1850 Polk County, Iowa, USA Census 1860 Brandywine Twp., Shelby County, Indiana, USA Census 1900 Park, Sedgwick County, Kansas, USA Census 1910 Ward 1, Wichita, Sedgwick County, Kansas, USA LDS LK78-FSY Died 2 May 1910 Wichita, Sedgwick County, Kansas, USA [1, 2, 3] Buried 4 May 1910 Maple Grove Cemetery, Wichita, Sedgwick County, Kansas, USA [1, 2] - Section F, Lot 119, Grave 5
Notes - Courtesy of Reginald Day:
William and Mercy Jane Colclazier must of had a stormy marriage. After 12 children they divorced in 1879. She got the farm and three kids, Isabel, Tacy and Samuel, all small ones. Since she did not have anyone to help her on the farm she went to Wichita, Kansas with the 3 children. She later sold the farm in Iowa to someone in Kansas. She got $800.00 for it. Wm. only paid 1.25 an acre or $50 for the farm. Then finding it hard to support 3 children with no skills she married a James Barrett - known among her children as Old man Barrett. I didn't know he had any other name until I came across the 1900 census. They lived with my parents at that time. Grandma Mercy lived with Sam and Mollie for 15 years - she was so tough to get along with that none of her daughters would tolerate her. My mother was a saint. I can remember them quilting together, putting up fruit and vegetables together, and I never knew of any disturbances. Until - my mother had a stroke, late in life, and she really talked. She had a lot of resentments that all thru the years she kept to herself.
Since grandma lived with us all her children, grandchildren, cousins, etc., when they were in trouble came to live with us for a spell. I can remember that there was always someone there who needed help. When my father needed help later in life there wasn't a one who could remember him! Such is life!
William, my grandfather, after the divorce took Wm. Rily and his family and went to Scandia, Kansas. That is where his sister, Juliana Doak, had moved. This must of been about 1880 for I saw a census where he was listed. He lived there the rest of his life and was buried there. When he died my father wanted to go to the funeral but my grandmother sternly refused to let him go. Her divorce must of been a bitter one. I understand he was a womanizer - he kept Mercy pregnant all those years and down on the farm. She was only 17 when they married and she was pregnant the entire time.
My mother told me grandma would get so big that if a broom fell on the floor she couldn't raise her foot to step over it. Wm never married again. He lived with Riley and started with a sod house. He later gave all he had to Riley to take care of him the rest of his life. Riley paid the taxes and got the property. He probably deserved it.
I remember visiting Arthur and Florence Colclazier - Riley's two children. Arthur lived on the farm after Riley died. Arthur finally went to California and died there. I corresponded with Arthur's daughter who lives in California for a while.
Aaron as will as John's descendants all live in and around Oklahoma. I know some of them.
Written by Lola Colclazier --Lola delved some into genealogy and was responsible for some of the information put forth here. daughter of Samuel & Mary Margaret Bollen (Molly).I received this information from David Merriman 2003
Person ID I5492 oldham Last Modified 1 Sep 2023
Father OLDHAM, John, b. 12 Feb 1811, Tennessee, USA , d. 7 May 1875, Brandywine Twp., Shelby County, Indiana, USA (Age 64 years) Mother KEITH, Margaret, b. Abt 1815, d. 1833, Shelbyville, Shelby County, Indiana, USA (Age ~ 18 years) Family ID F2564 Group Sheet | Family Chart
Family 1 COLCLAZIER, William, b. 14 Dec 1821, Owingsville, Bath, Kentucky, USA , d. 10 Dec 1898, Scandia, Republic County, Kansas, USA (Age 76 years) Married 16 Mar 1848 Shelbyville, Shelby County, Indiana, USA [4, 5] Oldham
William and Mercy Jane Oldham Colclazier
Marriage RecordDivorced 1879 Kansas, USA Children 1. COLCLAZIER, Aaron Franklin, b. 18 Feb 1849, Shelby County, Indiana, USA , d. 1906, Maramec, Pawnee County, Oklahoma, USA (Age 56 years) 2. COLCLAZIER, John Warren, b. Mar 1852, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. 5 Jun 1942, Pawnee, Payne County, Oklahoma, USA (Age ~ 90 years) 3. COLCLAZIER, Mary Ellen, b. 25 Dec 1854, Sommerset, Warren County, Iowa, USA , d. 17 May 1934, Clinton, Henry County, Missouri, USA (Age 79 years) 4. COLCLAZIER, Phillip, b. 20 Dec 1856, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. 14 Aug 1904, Exira, Audubon County, Iowa, USA (Age 47 years) 5. COLCLAZIER, Victoria, b. 1857, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. Abt 1927, Pawnee, Payne County, Oklahoma, USA (Age 70 years) 6. COLCLAZIER, William Riley, b. 13 Nov 1858, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. 17 Aug 1910, Scandia, Republic County, Kansas, USA (Age 51 years) 7. COLCLAZIER, Lydia Eliza?, b. 1861, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. Yes, date unknown 8. COLCLAZIER, Edith, b. 10 May 1862, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. Yes, date unknown 9. COLCLAZIER, Andrew Jackson, b. 10 May 1862, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. 18 Apr 1934, Madera, Madera County, California, USA (Age 71 years) 10. COLCLAZIER, Isabelle, b. 1866, d. Abt 1918 (Age 52 years) 11. COLCLAZIER, Samuel Stewart, b. 10 Aug 1871, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. 7 Aug 1931, Tyron, Texas County, Oklahoma, USA (Age 59 years) 12. COLCLAZIER, Tacy Jane, b. 30 Aug 1874, Somerset, Des Moines County, Iowa, USA , d. 1 Mar 1920, Arkansas City, Cowley County, Kansas, USA (Age 45 years) Last Modified 29 Nov 2013 Family ID F2188 Group Sheet | Family Chart
Family 2 BARRETT, James Steven, b. Aug 1817, Belmont County, Ohio, USA , d. 18 Feb 1906, Lincoln County, Oklahoma, USA (Age ~ 88 years) Married 1886 Last Modified 1 Sep 2023 Family ID F2563 Group Sheet | Family Chart
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